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My happy place
When I was five years old we moved to a house opposite a children's home. There were so many children of different ages who came from a...
unwillingcarer
Oct 28, 20213 min read
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Asking for help and receiving more.
This is a BIGGIE for me. I have worked on this a lot in therapy but still it is one of the hardest things for me to do. I have to summon...
unwillingcarer
Oct 27, 20212 min read
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Flight or fright ...
The acute stress response is a physiological response that occurs when we experience danger. There are a number of these responses but...
unwillingcarer
Oct 26, 20213 min read
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Much needed time off.
Just what I needed, some time away from him. Time to breathe, feel free and relax. Today we had booked to see an art experience and then...
unwillingcarer
Oct 24, 20213 min read
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Tears flowing
When it all gets too much for me. Last night was a prime example. He has a urinary tract infection. Unfortunately in my wisdom and for...
unwillingcarer
Oct 24, 20213 min read
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It has to always be all about him.
This is how it always has been. Others' attention has always had to focus on dad wherever we were. If it wasn't, my Mum and I knew that...
unwillingcarer
Oct 23, 20213 min read
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But why do you do it?
That's a question I have been asked many a time by friends, therapists and others. I chose to care for my Mum for ten years as she was so...
unwillingcarer
Oct 22, 20212 min read
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Drama queen
Only in my teen years did I realise I lived with an 'Oscar award winning actor' (not really obviously) but that's what my Mum and I...
unwillingcarer
Oct 20, 20212 min read
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Rollercoaster
Being a carer is certainly a rollercoaster. A rollercoaster of emotions. One day is calm and peaceful, the next may be hectic and mad and...
unwillingcarer
Oct 20, 20212 min read
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Evasive sleep.
Good morning, it's 6am and I am sitting here in bed in the dark creating a blog. Been awake since silly o'clock. Curtains open, waiting...
unwillingcarer
Oct 19, 20212 min read
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